So not sure if you've read the book: 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
If not, I think you should; it's helps you discover what 'language' love can best be expressed/shown to you and in what ways you naturally extend your love to others.
P. S. I even found they have a website...http://www.5lovelanguages.com (you can even take a free quiz to find what your love language is!)
Brief description of the love languages below:
